 Fear of change is present every day, everywhere, no matter where we live, where we work with who we hang out with. It's all over the place. I am not saying that to give more power to fears, but to create awareness about our inner world, and to start taking control of our lives. Time won't change anything other that postpone what you want to create and change. We call that procrastination. I used to be stuck in fears for years thinking that I need more time and space to change. In this case, it was a lie! I almost lost my marriage and talents because of that mindset. We want to create a sense of urgency that has been lost for too long, and stop living our lives as a victim. Life goes on and we are going to have results created by what we deeply believe about ourselves because our programs (filters) are running on autopilot, and it works. We got to stop taking that chicken exit and start changing our meanings in order to change our lives. We have been settle down for less, and now it’s time to do something for ourselves. What do we have to lose? Looking good, looking smart, fear of rejection, fear of success? What price do we pay for that? "We change ONLY when we see a cost or price higher than we are willing to pay." Brian Klemmer, Founder and CEO, Klemmer & Associates. Change can be fun and easy, It doesn't have to be hard like we think it should be, but we have to start somewhere. Why wait tomorrow what we can change today?  I known people that do not like change. Some people do like it because for them it means new home, new life, new relationship and so on. For others, change could mean troubles, struggles, suffering and all trouble that come with it.
Could it be POSSIBLE to opt for something like 'Change is good, fun and exciting rather than to believe it is hard? Who like hard and who said that life has to be hard? If we choose to believe that way, it is guarantee that life will make sure to remind us that we are right about what we believe. You do not have to believe me, try it, and you will see by yourself. When we choose a new meaning, It does not mean that we would not have any challenges, obstacles, opposition, and so on. Life may ask us to be vulnerable, courageous, and to keep an open heart combined with love and support to help us to make the change we want. Having a new meaning will allow us to create a new exciting experience with more freedom to move in our life. Our past experience can create fears We often create our own fears based on our past experience. Then we start to settle down for less because we let our fears to stop us to get what we want. It becomes our reality and creates the life we have. Many people do not allow themselves to succeed because they start to project their fears into their future without even starting to move yet. They are scared of what could happen just in thinking to opt for a new business or a career change. Become aware of our fears can shift our lives for us and for our family for ever. Everyday we have a choice to let those fears stopping us or not. No matter if it is a fear of failure, fear of rejection or fear of loosing control, we got to do something about it to not let our life stolen by those feelings and thoughts. We got to choose and move! Why would we stick with something that doesn't serve us at all? Are we not tired enough to suffer and start to create something more powerful for ourselves and others? "We change ONLY when we see a cost or price higher than we are willing to pay." Brian Klemmer, Founder and CEO, Klemmer & Associates. If you have one thing you could change today what would it be? Feel free to comments. BACK HOME! Woohoo!!
I have some good news. Today, for me, is a NEW day for few reasons; coming back to work at home and reconnecting with my artistic skills. As you may know, I am working in the Real Estate field since July 2013. I had 2 offices; one at Royal Lepage Kelowna and the other one at home. Two weeks ago, I had the option to move in a different place at Royal Lepage, but instead of changing for another room available, I decided to take that opportunity to move my office to work at home. I am so excited to work from home like I wasn't since many years! Woohooo!!!! I know that I can succeed in all I do no matter where I choose to work. Art & Music Connection The other exciting news is that my HeArt is back to ART and to music. I used to sing and play some music long time ago. My dad was a drummer and a lead singer, and music had always being part of my life. Singing is my first passion, but I gave up on it long time ago because I wasn't trusting myself enough. I used to believe that I wasn't good enough to pursue my passion. I was stuck in fear, and I couldn't move forward. I was afraid of being rejected and judged. The reason why I share my heart is to create opening and freedom for those who need to hear this to bring power to move in their life. It's time to change Don't you believe It's time for all of us, artists or not, to get out of the box and get rid of old mindsets, fears and any thought that we bought about ourselves that don't serve us at all? We got to do something for ourselves first that will better serve others in what we do and to be the extraordinary person we have been created for. "Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you". Marianne Williamson quotes (showing 1-30 of 235, (Go to Goodreads to read more) No matter if it's at home, school, church, grocery store, or if you work for the government, and so on, let's BE the change we want to see in our life and in our community. Let's create a world of possibilities where things start to shift, aware of our power to choose and create a better life and future for us and our families. If we don't start to shift and create change today, WHO will? Feel free to comments and share. |